At what age do kids stop wanting to hold your hand? Stop willingly receiving your kisses and cuddles? And when do you get them back? My son is now 10 and, blissfully, now tells me (with a little coaxing) that he loves me again, and will allow hugs, though hand-holding […]
Parenting
You’re Not Alone: Overcoming Loneliness as a New Single Parent.
The path to single parenthood looks different for everyone. Whether it was a transition you saw coming or something you’re still adjusting to, one thing many newly single parents experience is an overwhelming sense of loneliness in single parenthood. There is nothing quite as isolating as those early days of […]
Is It Possible To Keep Kids Safe Online?
Gone are the days of a 5-minute dial up, an hour of connection and a stilted exchange over MSN messenger. Our kids were born into the age of the internet, and for better or worse, they’re used to having the whole world at their fingertips when it comes to information. […]
Do I Need To Make A New Will After Getting Divorced?
Divorce is a never-ending stream of paperwork. It is tick-lists and replying to emails. It is filling in forms and having uncomfortable conversations. And it is protecting your future and securing your financial freedom. Finally, it is about safeguarding your children’s futures. This means thinking about worst-case scenarios. Making a […]
What Are The Best Saving Options For Your Kids?
As a single parent, you’re probably more aware than anyone how important it is to save for the future. The chances are that money may be tight for you, and you will most likely want the opposite for your children for when they’re older. There might not be much money […]
How Does Universal Credit Work For Single Mums In The UK?
The cost of living in the UK is at an all time high in the UK, so there is no shame in needing support in covering your expenses, especially if you are the sole head of a household and raising children. When I became a single mum I did not […]
What Benefits Are There for Single Mums in the UK?
The truth is, raising a family on one income in the current economic climate is tough. There is no shame in needing help to cover costs. If you’re a new single mother, you may need to get to grips with the benefits system and how to navigate it. Single mums […]
Camp Bestival Prep: The Single Mum’s Guide to Packing for a Festival
Headed to Camp Bestival with the kids and not sure what to pack? As a seasoned single mum festival-goer, I’ve survived many summer festivals on my own with Jack, in all sorts of weather. Here’s what to take to a festival with kids. Going To A Festival As A Single […]
Don’t you feel guilty? Dealing With Single Parent Guilt
Mum guilt is not a new phenomenon. Mums have been feeling guilty since the dawn of time. For doing it all wrong. For being too attached. Not attached enough. For working when they should be parenting, parenting when they should be working. For single mums this is intensified. Welcome to […]
This is how the Child Maintenance System works in the UK
This is not an article about whether the CMS (Child Maintenance System) is or isn’t effective. Many single parents feel that the system is broken or imperfect, and are left feeling unsupportive or out of pocket due to issues with enforcement. However, if you’re a new single parent and you […]